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How long to wait once we decide to get married?

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Asked at 2011.03.31 01:10:25
I am in school and work full time and live on my own. I want atleast a year before we get married to take care of my bills, figure out vacations for work ( not eligible to receive vacation until 7 months from now), and have time to save money to get all the things we want for the wedding; however she wants it earlier (in 5 to 7 months) becuase she says she is tired of waiting and wants to be with me already. I just feel that if we wait we will be better prepaid financially and have alot more time to take care of little things and not rush in getting everything ready for the big day.
answer Answer Girl 2007  Answered at 2011.03.31 01:10:25
While you both are anxious to get married and begin your new life together, if you don't believe you are financially stable enough then wait. You both seem to love each other and there is no doubt that you will get married.

Getting married is a huge step financially, as well as emotionally. When you start your new life together you want everything to go as smoothly as possible. If you two are constantly worrying/stressing about your individual bills, can you imagine the add stress of running and financially supporting a household together.

Pay down your debt and save a little, then get married in a year or two from now.
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