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When people hurt you or upset you much, how long does it take until you feel like talking to them again :) ?

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Asked at 2011.03.31 00:51:49
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answer frenzy-CIB- Jim's with Jesus  Answered at 2011.03.31 00:51:49
If someone kept hurting me over and over, I would cut them out of my life (unless family), and I would pray for them. There comes a point in time where you have to let go and let people fall on their faces, if that is what they are determined to do.

I would probably also take into consideration the amount of damage done. If you sleep with my husband, no second chance. If you don't show up to babysit...well, then it is a question of if you want to keep the relationship, just not trust the person with such things again. It also depends on if there is a medical condition that is causing this kind of behavior.

Huge offenses: I have to cut you off. I can't have a traitor in my midst, but I will wish you well and pray for you.

Medium offenses: Depends on the circumstances and motivation for the action. What are the chances it will be repetitive behavior, and, if it has been, then you have to ask yourself if the relationship is worth the BS.

Small offensives: I will give a close friend many small offenses. If you are close to me, then I will tolerate some things. If you are merely an acquaintance, and this is repetitive, I would probably keep my distance and observe further.

Long again. Sorry.
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